It's another New Year. Each year is getting a bit shorter than the last. I'm not one for setting resolutions, but this year for me is a focus on everyday goals. Even though planning for the future and setting long term goals is important to make sure we are on the right path, it can also be extremely overwhelming and before we know it the year is gone and we've spent it worrying about what might be instead of appreciating all the amazing things that can happen everyday. Things in the long run always have a way of working themselves out so by focusing on the individual day we can be more mindful as to how we are spending our time.
So make your to-do list for today. This is a list of the things that we know we should do, that we want to do, but we set aside because we tell ourselves there are more important things and that the things we want for ourselves can wait. Don't wait, start them now and make your list. Keep it small, keep it manageable, but keep it important and realistic.
Help your children to set these small accomplishments for the day. For them it could be responsibilities from putting their breakfast dishes in the dishwasher, to starting their homework without being asked, to picking up their violins and playing through their review independently before they practice with mom or dad. Maybe it's scheduling in time for other things they love like reading a book, colouring or playing catch. There IS actually time in the day to get everything done if we can realistically look at what is important, what we want in the long run and what can we do today to nurture where we want to be and who we want our children to become.
Not sure what to put on your list? Well I've got the first one set for you and your child:
Play/Practice EVERYDAY for 100 Days!
When we ALL complete the challenge, we'll get to record our progress on this banner for all to see! Check it out next week in group class, but get playing today!
As Shinichi Suzuki would say, "
You should only practice on the days you eat". Put playing the violin on the list. There are no time requirements, only the action of picking up the violin and playing everyday which will hopefully lead to a successful practice session. You can all do it! Start small, keep it manageable, keep it realistic and keep it important. What else will you accomplish today? Happy Practicing!
Thanks to everyone who braved the snow tonight to make it to group class.
Drive safe through what will hopefully be a nice short winter.